:(

[Porkchop]

yeah i wanna know how the saga ends. just remember the worst she can say is ( Let's just stay friends)

Actually, the worst thing she could say is "...and here is the restraining order. Stop bothering me." but I don't think it will come to that.

Just like everyone else, I'd like to find out what happens not just because I've invested my time in reading four pages of posts over the past couple of days but because I like stories where the guy get the girl and they lived happily ever after.

[blue05twin]

Hey An,
I didn't read all the replies, just giving you my take on this. 

Just suck it up and ask her out or shut up about her.

What do you have to lose if you ask her out anyway?  She won't be working with you anymore.  At her new job she's probally going to meet some guy who will ask her out and there goes your chance.

[lawman]

yeah i wanna know how the saga ends. just remember the worst she can say is ( Let's just stay friends)

Actually, the worst thing she could say is "...and here is the restraining order. Stop bothering me." but I don't think it will come to that.

Just like everyone else, I'd like to find out what happens not just because I've invested my time in reading four pages of posts over the past couple of days but because I like stories where the guy get the girl and they lived happily ever after.

I like stories where the guy is about to get the girl and then has a big gunfight with gansters that leads to some crazy karate action in a warehouse...  It's best when the girl gets killed in the process.  PM me if that happens in this case.

[bill14224]

This is good news.  Now you can date her, and yes, she's at least mildly interested.  I don't hang-out with my boss after hours and we don't text each other all day like teenagers.  He's also a man, but never mind.  I think I made my point.  Lawman is absolutely correct.  If you don't tell her you'll regret it and wonder "what if" for the rest of your life, and that's torture.

Now find your nuts and tell her you want to take her to dinner to celebrate her new job.  How can she say no?  You will have date #1 out of the way.  Don't forget to kiss her goodnight, and tell her you've wanted to do that ever since you met her. 

Listen to the old man.

I had the same problem when I was younger.  I'm outgoing and chatty, but when I liked a girl a lot I felt intimidated and couldn't take the leap.  I got over it.  So can you.  I have a steady girl for the last 3 years but I dated more women in my 40's than I can count, and I still sometimes kick myself at how shy around women I was before.  Had I not dated so much I probably never would have learned what kind of woman I'm actually compatible with, and I became a better boyfriend in the process.  3 years and not an argument yet.  I met Naomi shortly before your friend Rich died.

Now stop thinking so damn much and do what I, and most of the others, are telling you.  And of course, do keep us posted.

[Toogoofy317]

Just do like the 40 year old Virgin! Watch the movie than act! LOL!

I'm rooting for ya An!

Mary

[yamahonkawazuki]

As am i an., and btw the sheep are REALLY pullin for yaq. to get  the girl

[annguyen1981]

I'm really sure that she DOESN'T have the same feelings for me.  Telling her can only cause harm.

The way I see it, I've got two options:

1) Tell her and she drifts away real quick.  The only good thing that comes out of this is that I "have no regrets".

2) I don't tell her.  We remain friends, but we don't hangout/talk/whatever as much.  Sure, it'll take me longer to get over her, but I eventually WILL get over her.

[wladziu]

I'm pulling for you, An. 













But, d@mn. 

[shiznizbiz]

I always feel that its better to know for certain than to not know and replay the what ifs in my mind.  Id personally just f%$king tell her. If she fades off...so be it.  once you catch the love bug for someone, you cant be just friends.  either way it goes...believe me...the friendship is done.  you either move up or move on homie.

[Jughead]

How old Is She? Either PM me Her Address,I come put the moves on or you get Her.Simple as that.You want Her Get her or let someone Else Sweep Her up.I can go into all of the Bullshit but if you think you have a chance Grab Her.If you don't Try to grab Her Anyway.

When it all boils Down....... How do you really f^%k I N ' feel. about Her.If Any Doubts walk Away and live Lonely.Try? Well then try.If It doesn't work out then what the f^%k Your Still lonely.If it works out then your still going to be f^%k I N' miserable.Either way its going to be a Lose lose Situation.OK now go and make your Mind up. In the words of Sublime "f^%k it!fight it!its all the same the name of Louie Dog is the only way to stay sane.Let the Lovin let the lovin come back to me"

[Jughead]

How old Is She? Either PM me Her Address,I come put the moves on or you get Her.Simple as that.You want Her Get her or let someone Else Sweep Her up.I can go into all of the Bulloh my goodness but if you think you have a chance Grab Her.If you don't Try to grab Her Anyway.

When it all boils Down....... How do you really f^%k I N ' feel. about Her.If Any Doubts walk Away and live Lonely.Try? Well then try.If It doesn't work out then what the f^%k Your Still lonely.If it works out then your still going to be f^%k I N' miserable.Either way its going to be a Lose lose Situation.OK now go and make your Mind up. In the words of Sublime "f^%k it!fight it!its all the same the name of Louie Dog is the only way to stay sane.Let the Lovin let the lovin come back to me"

Geezus don't pay any Attention to what I posted.I don't quite remember Coming Home this Morning and don't remember what I was trying to say either. Damn Moonshine and Beer and Scotch and.....

[annguyen1981]

Don't worry Juggie...  I didn't really understand what you posted. heh.

So I've got two more days to man up and tell her SOMETHING.  Monday and Tuesday.  I'm just pissed at myself for not being able to do what I need to do.

[spc]

OK, here's what you're gonna do.  Find your nearest farm.  Shoot the bull.  Chop his balls off and take em home.  Throw em in the blender until you get a nice smooth liquid.  Inject it.  (If you can get the balls off the bull without killing or sedating it you don't really need to do this you just need to stop being such a whiney fuch)

[yamahonkawazuki]

An maybe im naive BUT even if she doesnt have teh same feelings toward you. i doubt it will do harm to tell her. i basically did the same thing within the past few days, and am awaiting the answer/esults lol GO FOR IT

[wladziu]

Wait, wait! You've got it!

So I've got two more days to man up and tell her SOMETHING.  Monday and Tuesday.  I'm just pissed at myself for not being able to do what I need to do.

You see what that feels like? 
That's your manhood.  It's saying, "An... An... Stop being a whiney fuch... An... You've forgotten about me... And why your eyes are in the front of your head... An..."





Remember when you were saying that you'd get over her? 
You know you're wrong when even your own subconscious is pissed at you...
Come on, buddy! 

[shiznizbiz]

Wait, wait! You've got it!

So I've got two more days to man up and tell her SOMETHING.  Monday and Tuesday.  I'm just pissed at myself for not being able to do what I need to do.

You see what that feels like? 
That's your manhood.  It's saying, "An... An... Stop being a whiney fuch... An... You've forgotten about me... And why your eyes are in the front of your head... An..."





Remember when you were saying that you'd get over her? 
You know you're wrong when even your own subconscious is pissed at you...
Come on, buddy! 

Thats also the same feeling you will feel for a very very very long time if you say nothing.  Do you wanna live with that feeling?

[yamahonkawazuki]

Wait, wait! You've got it!

So I've got two more days to man up and tell her SOMETHING.  Monday and Tuesday.  I'm just pissed at myself for not being able to do what I need to do.

You see what that feels like? 
That's your manhood.  It's saying, "An... An... Stop being a whiney fuch... An... You've forgotten about me... And why your eyes are in the front of your head... An..."





Remember when you were saying that you'd get over her? 
You know you're wrong when even your own subconscious is pissed at you...
Come on, buddy! 

See An, even our resident @$$hole can be wise too 

[annguyen1981]

FUQ ME.

All I could muster up today was "My day brightens up each time I see you".  I was trying to tell her more, then she asked me if I was gonna cry.  lol.  I guess she couldn't tell I was nervous as fuq.

I absolutely HAVE TO tell her tomorow.  otherwise there will be a man card up for grabs in the For Sale section.

[wladziu]

Can I be President @$$hole?   It's close to resident, but supports my ego better. 

[cafeboy]

Can I be President @$$hole?   It's close to resident, but supports my ego better. 

No Obama already has that title.