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Jughead · April 04, 2009, 07:54:05 PM

Ah I'm going thru the same thing more or less.Have been for the past Year. Damn sometimes I think I need my head Checked.Why I even try I don't know.

I've heard that they don't want to Hurt me,Sorry if I'm leading you on,I don't mean too,My Boyfriend treats me like shaZam! he's an @$$hole I need someone in my life to Help me,I need something to eat,I'm Cold I need Heat,I'm not a Whore or my mama,ETC.ETC.ETC.
Why are women born with their Heads up their Asses? I turn to God Every Day to show me the way but he just Ignores me.

yamahonkawazuki · April 05, 2009, 12:33:01 AM

Or jug he shows you the bad oens first. so you know when you find the good ones

Toogoofy317 · April 05, 2009, 02:03:53 AM

I looked in the mirror and my head is most definately not up my a$$! Not all of us are like that.

Hell, I think she did a hell of a lot better than what everyone was saying she'd do. She also made it clear I know alot of girls don't even give the time of day with that. If it is in the cards I really hope the friendship survives because that will mean it was a good one first off.

Mary

Canonball · April 05, 2009, 07:41:26 AM

Quote from: yamahonkawazuki on April 05, 2009, 12:33:01 AM
Or jug he shows you the bad oens first. so you know when you find the good ones

nice.....+1!

this thread needs to end, sorry man but you need to move on. obviously shes missing out on a great person...thats her loss, i promise you'll find someone who deserves you and then you'll feel pretty silly about this loooooong thread. closure is a good thing, acknowledge it, allow a short period of time to revel in it, then move on continue living your life.

yamahonkawazuki · April 05, 2009, 12:42:57 PM

Absotively posilutely

annguyen1981 · April 06, 2009, 04:12:36 PM

Quote from: Canonball on April 05, 2009, 07:41:26 AM
Quote from: yamahonkawazuki on April 05, 2009, 12:33:01 AM
Or jug he shows you the bad oens first. so you know when you find the good ones

nice.....+1!

this thread needs to end, sorry man but you need to move on. obviously shes missing out on a great person...thats her loss, i promise you'll find someone who deserves you and then you'll feel pretty silly about this loooooong thread. closure is a good thing, acknowledge it, allow a short period of time to revel in it, then move on continue living your life.

I think the closure for me was just to TELL her. I guess I knew in my heart that she wasn't interested in me as more than a friend. But in my head I had two conflicting thoughts...

1) Tell her and possibly lose a great friend (like I've done in the past... except it was my BEST friend at the time)

2) Don't tell her and remain friends... but always wonder 'what if' (I've done this too, and it sucks equally)

wladziu · April 06, 2009, 05:34:12 PM

So, basically, this is what happened:

Quote from: wladziu on March 22, 2009, 12:32:50 PM
An,
She picked up on it a LOOOONG time ago. She's a woman; it's what they do. She's probably just annoyed by now.
It's what happens when you don't use what you've been given.

Tell her something. Who gives a sh!t what you say. She sure doesn't.
Or don't, then be prepared to compare every woman you meet to her.

The longer you go without doing something about it, the more she thinks that she can do better. She picked up on it from your mannerisms, so don't fool yourself that it's something different.

I think I remember somebody saying that before.... Wait, I know! It was me!

annguyen1981 · April 06, 2009, 05:42:40 PM

Cram it Wlad. Not every woman is like what you describe...

She actually never wanted me to say anything... I remember a survey on myspace that she filled out... one of the questions was something like, "If someone liked you, would you want them to tell you?"

Her answer was something like "I hope this one guy doesn't." I had a feeling back then that she knew, and I had a feeling that she mght have been referring to me in her answer. But that was about a year ago probably... and I wasn't really gonna tell her anyway. In fact, I was trying to deny that I had feelings for her.... I've lost a great friend because of my stupid feelings, and I wasn't prepared to go through that again.

yamahonkawazuki · April 07, 2009, 02:28:44 AM

wELL AN. HOPEFULLY YOU STILL HAVE A FRIEND IN HER. FROM WHAT YOUVE SAID. SEEMS TO BE. AND ODDS ARE STILL WILL. BE BUT AS YOU ALREADY KNOW. MORE THAN LIKELY WILL NOT GO ANY FURTHER. but YO UKNOW.. SO NOW YOU CAN MOVE FWD WIHT YOUR LIFE. AND NOT SPEND IT WONDERING. WHAT IF..... Sorry caps got stuck, and im too lazy to correct after the day ive had. lol. anyhoo GL an

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