Dating sites/stories/advice....

[Janx101]

(Damn touchscreen!) .... sittin' in a tree! K I S S I N G !!! Lol

Good show Miss!!

[yamahonkawazuki]

pics of the happy couple?
Aaron

[ShowBizWolf]

Bumping my own thread cuz I was trolling the "who's online" thing and a Guest was viewing this...

Been single (again) since last October. I'm getting VERY good at finding all the perks to being single and totally independent!!!

Like Jerry Lewis said... "You might as well like yourself... just think about all the time you're gonna have to spend with you."

Time for another Hamm's  

[yamahonkawazuki]

been single nearly a week myself. i can finally relax. she was batsh*t crazy. i seemed to have great luck finding those lol. thought about the dating sites but idk. course its waaaay too sooon . past experiences though werent all that great. (mostly scammers in sub saharan africa) even using the search filters they get around that with ease. anyhoo enough of that, you killing slugs again? lol.
Aaron

[ShowBizWolf]

Hahaha yes! My favorite slug killer

Dating sites that I have tried since originally posting this over two years ago have been disappointing, to say the least. I've learned first hand that they are pretty sketchy... and it doesn't have to do with the actual other people using it.

For example, the one I'm currently on sometimes "deletes" your profile... to others that you are having a conversation with and then all of a sudden, it's visible again. I found this out because I was friends with the girl on facebook by then and she was like, "Hey... did you delete your profile on that site? Cuz it says you did when I go to view it." And I was like no....

I've also seen a site that says you have some messages in your inbox and of course, you can't read them until you pay for the site's other services. Once you fork over the $$, you see that the messages are just from the site itself saying things like "welcome to the site" and "see people you're matched up with" etc etc.

On another site, I was getting inbox messages but they were all very similar... even though they were from different people. I tried to reply to a few but it didn't take long at all for me to realize they were all automated. I'm like wtf? Haha yeah so... good times

I am not exactly poor... but the extra money I make after all my bills are paid I like to spend on my bike or my vehicles or my house. I could pay the (IMO) high price for match or eharmony if I really wanted to... but I'm just not willing to pay those prices for basically rolling the dice and most likely coming up with nothing.

[yamahonkawazuki]

or at the time id set search parameters to say 200 miles from knoxville tn. (closest city about 20 mins away) and id get a reply saying heyyyyy im right down the road from you...... in central botswana or ukraine. im like yeahhh lemme think a sec. .....no. ive quit looking in clinton. seems if i mention a womans name in a crowd of men, half the hands would go up. aslight exaggeration yes but ive all but given up on the dating scene here. ive got a bit of a stalker in the ex. i pulled the trigger on fb setting status to single. that set up a sh*tstorm for 2 days. now conversation is when we getting married. . 2 things im thinking. wtfh when did i propose and 2. i must change my number. this 99 cent lg vn280 is nearly dead lol. time for another texting phone with a DIFFERENT number. this past relationship will go in the memoirs as lol. sometimes i wished i hadnt given up drinking. could have used a few cases in the past 48hours. anyhoo back on track, ii thought about eharmony or match as well. maybe at some point in future.
for me it was looks are irrelevant. after all ones body is but a carrier for ones soul. if ones soul is foul, move on.
Aaron