...I hate them. The ones who didn't want them and didn't try...just got stupid and ended up with something they have no respect for. Kalee is a sweet, innocent woman...she's barely a woman. I've seen people die and I've floated over the edge of death myself on more than one occasion. I've seen the shitty side of things and been there adding to the shitty side of things. She's done nothing wrong in her life. She's always wanted a baby and she was so happy when she found out she was pregnant. She wanted everyone to know and she laughed and got giddy over it and she was so excited to go buy baby towels and rags and some toys. She was so thrilled to show me the little package of ring-toys from babies-r-us last wednesday. The worst moment in my life was hearing her sobbing, clutching her stomach, on the way to the ER saying "I don't want to lose the baby". I've done a lot of bad shaZam! in my life but she gave her bottle of water away to a total stranger in the waiting room just because she looked thirsty. She didn't deserve this taken away from her after so much happiness and excitement. I'm not even strong enough to hold myself together to comfort her.
My opinion of the ungrateful has plummeted.
Sorry to hear this man... Keep trying O0
Mak, I'm sorry to hear this. Lots of people have felt the same pain (more than you probably know). Time will help ease the pain, and maybe it will happen again. It took my wife and I years to conceive and then we lost the child at five and a half months of pregnancy. It took a year and a half to get pregnant again, but now we have a wonderful son.
I'm thinking about you. Hang in there.
My condolences m8, keep strong, and tell your lovely wife were all prayin for her, and keeping her in our thoughts :cry:
mak also, i know youre grieving and stuff. BUT you will run into one of these ungrateful people again, dont bash their brains in, dont kill em, if you have to say anything to them say this " You have NO FUCKIN IDEA", and leave it at that
ive known people who have lost /( miscarried) my ex gf, whos odds of conceiving were VERY slim, she got pregnant ( by me, TWICE), however miscarried both times, this was in or about the time i joined this site. anyhoo, i was on the verge of well doing something harmful to myself, as was she. and i ran into people like you describe. i seriously wanted to HURT them, ( my irish temper lol) but i didnt. anyhoo, ill close by saying, stay strong, try and get yourself together, for both yourself, and for your wife, i see one day you WILL have bunches of little maks running all over the house 8) ;)
Oh man Mak,
I'm so sorry.
I was in your place 11 years ago. All I can say is let the tears come and hold on to your wife. You will need each other like never before.
If you ever need someone to talk to, PM me. I'll give you my contact info.
Take care of you and kaylee.
PJ
same here mak, same here
Take care Mak, sorry to hear of this.
i'm sorry man, the same thing happened to my daughter but she went on to have two great kids. my grandson cameron and my grandaughter katie. the worste thing to happen to me was my first wife had an abortion, without telling me, when we were seperated. it was her f%$king Buddha Loves You of a mother who always hated me who talked her into it. her mother could not stand to see anyone happy because she was in a loveless marriage and she was just biding time to get out of it. after i found out my wife had that abortion i never spoke to her again...it has been over 20 years now. i will never forgive her. what gives her the right to kill my child....rant coming on.
again i am sorry for your loss
Nothing gave her the right , thats so horrable
sorry to hear Mac :cry:
I'm so, so very sorry for your loss and Kalee's, Mak. :cry: