True Love?

[Jay_wolf]

Yea , i love her i think , ive never felt this strong about a person in my life , when we met , she didnt tell me she was rich or anything , we just got on well , shes pierced , tattooed , loves bikes, *even owned a Ducati Monster for a while* , she is like my best friend already , we lie there and talk for hours about everythign and anything , she loves my tattoos , piercings , my drumming and everything , we dont ever disagree , we dont argue , its just lovely , and believe the Daytona was a shock , and yea theres nothing i could buy her that she couldnt , but we are going to Cos in july, and were gonna go down to cornwall , on the Daytona in june and spend a weekend there , im very very very Happy ,

Ill get a pic of me and her 2gether tomoz , but ill try and find a pic for now

[ajaxgs]

marry her or do whatever ,but stay with her , don't find many women like that , i have one myself, count yourself lucky and by the way nice bike man!!!!!! 

[frankieG]

my advise is don't get caught up in the bling. if you love her you will know and the money and presents will mean little.  although it is certainly nice but bling cannot replace love

[Cal Price]

What is it that man said, being wealthy is better than being poor if only for financial reasons.....
Seriously you don't need us lot to give you advice on your love-life, deep down you gotta know.
Enjoy Cornwall - - I lived there for a year or so as a kid and I realy liked it when it was not raining.

[ohgood]

this lady is one generous gal. if she can stand you, that's more points in her favor.

sure, go on and see if she'll accept you for the rest of her days.

worst that can happen is she says no.

women are a thing to be cherished, admired, lusted after and kept happy.

give the bike back and bow if she refuses you. it's only proper.

[Jay_wolf]

Im not marrying her after a month ... thats well to soon , if it all goes downhill , she can have the bike back

[bettingpython]

Im not marrying her after a month ... thats well to soon , if it all goes downhill , she can have the bike back

Ooooopps I didn't read Terry's post closely enough...

I moved in with my wife 2 or 3 weeks after meeting her.

We bought a house when we moved away from the college town where she was going to school.

We didn't get married until 5 months after we bought a house.

No hurry on the marriage.

[ajaxgs]

Im not marrying her after a month ... thats well to soon , if it all goes downhill , she can have the bike back

I moved in with my wife 2 or 3 weeks after meeting her.

i can relate , slept over one night and i never left

[ohgood]

Im not marrying her after a month ... thats well to soon , if it all goes downhill , she can have the bike back

I moved in with my wife 2 or 3 weeks after meeting her.

i can relate , slept over one night and i never left

ditto, only 9 years together now, 2 of which were married. marriage is highly overrated. the relationship needs some concrete before the vows are ever exchanged

[ajaxgs]

Im not marrying her after a month ... thats well to soon , if it all goes downhill , she can have the bike back

I moved in with my wife 2 or 3 weeks after meeting her.

i can relate , slept over one night and i never left

ditto, only 9 years together now, 2 of which were married. marriage is highly overrated. the relationship needs some concrete before the vows are ever exchanged

amazing what you bicker over .......tooth paste tube squeezed not rolled and my big thing , toilette paper out the top instead of out the bottom 

[Jay_wolf]

Woah , 3 weeks , and u moved in ? shes been talking about it , but it feels like its being rushed .

Rare . U must of really liked each other 

[bettingpython]

Woah , 3 weeks , and u moved in ? shes been talking about it , but it feels like its being rushed .

Rare . U must of really liked each other 

Gave up a 15 mile roundtrip to work for a 180 mile roundtrip drive to work.

Look at ajaxgs and ohgoods experiences above as well.

When it's right it's right. And one other piece of advice, your mates opinions of the woman you are with should carry zero weight with you. I can almost guarantee you if I hadn't been young and stupid and listened to a former friend of mine that didn't get along with my first wife that I would still be happilly married to her.

If she's already talking about moving in I hope you have made up your mind because this girl has decided she wants you.

You are at a point where YOU need to make a decision. Personally I make up my mind fast and usually like to go all in. I'm a sucker for a pretty girl that way, if she's not scared no reason you should be. It's usually the woman who gets cold feet and feels like things are moving to fast or some such stuff. Love at first sight sounds corny but I believe in it.

[Jay_wolf]

I wouldnt of thought of true love before i met her. . id be changing a 4 mile round trip for a 38 mile round trip , but i would be doing said trip on a Truimph Daytona 

I love her . i do , moving in is her idea . heck , shes talking about selling the house , so we can have a new house 2gether , just so we have a complete fresh start .

theres another piece of the puzzle i havent mentioned , theres a baby , i love him already , im going to be his daddy , due to the fact her Partner before passed away . we spoke about it , and im more than ready to care and love him like my own , which more of less puts the fact why she wants to sell up and move sumwhere else , im confused, but in love

[spc]

Ya know, you come to a point in your life when you have to accept kids.  I've brushed aside a couple of women because they had a kid.  I've abandoned that criteria now.  If you've already bonded with the kid, it should be a non-issue. 

I sat on a 675 today, very nice feeling bike, I was impressed..................until one of the techs offered to let me ride his Hypermotard.  I'm still in awe at that machine.

[bettingpython]

Ahhh hell kids are easy for single women, try being a guy and trying to find an acceptable woman to have around your kid, lots of women find out you have a kiid and thats the last time you see em.

Ok sounds like your thinking straight.

[Jay_wolf]

I didnt no he existed for the first two weeks , we was lying in my bed and she sed. baby , i have something to tell u , and i think ur gonna run a mile .. i was thinking .. * sex change? , My Cousin ? * , and she looked at me and sed.,  im a mummy ., and i was shocked a llil , but warmed to the idea , i love the boy , hes lovely , i love her ,  i just i dunno , im 20  *almost 21* and its all like , ive found some1 i do wanna be with forever , but 20 years old damn , i never thought it was going to be like this ,

I really wanna thank u guys for the reassureance , and such , and thank you  you BP ,  i thought i was rushing and she was trying to make us happen to  quick , but ur living proof that love is at first site , u have a very lucky lady...    * And A DAMN!!!! Nice bike *

[ajaxgs]

Woah , 3 weeks , and u moved in ? shes been talking about it , but it feels like its being rushed .

Rare . U must of really liked each other 

. And one other piece of advice, your mates opinions of the woman you are with should carry zero weight with you.

the only thing on that is don't forget your mates !!

she should be your best friend as well as well as your lover!!
hope it works out for you 

[bettingpython]

If they're really your mates they wont say anything thats not positive.

Yeah at your young age Jay your gonna have doubts man, whatever you do learn something from us old farts.

I wish someone like me had talked to me when I was 21 because losing that girl was hard on me. Took me 13 years to meet Jenn, she was the first woaman to give me that same warm feeling I got from my first wife that's how I knew it was right.

Without the experience of hindsight my friend you just have to keep going forward on faith, the hardest thing to do is to meet that wonderful woman who is meant for you so early in life.

Best wishes JAY

Tell us how you met her sometime. Would ya

[ajaxgs]

If they're really your mates they wont say anything thats not positive.

Yeah at your young age Jay your gonna have doubts man, whatever you do learn something from us old farts.

I wish someone like me had talked to me when I was 21 because losing that girl was hard on me. Took me 13 years to meet Jenn, she was the first woaman to give me that same warm feeling I got from my first wife that's how I knew it was right.

Without the experience of hindsight my friend you just have to keep going forward on faith, the hardest thing to do is to meet that wonderful woman who is meant for you so early in life.

Best wishes JAY

Tell us how you met her sometime. Would ya

dam that is well said!!!!

[Jay_wolf]

We met at my work , she bought something at the store i work in , after about 10 mins of chattting waiting for a price check , when she walked off , i followed her to the door , and asked her for her number, ussually id never do such a thing , but the way she smiled at me , said it all , then i finished work, and rang her as soon as i got out , met her in a bar 2 hours later , and the rest is just coming