Quote from: joerockerMen want to have sex with ALL the women we find attractive.  If we had our way we would walk down the street, pick one, and have her right there.  The streets would have little "shacks" with a matress.  Second best would be owning a harem where we could choose between several women to keep the variety up.  Second to LAST is getting married and having ONE woman as much as we want whenever we want.  Last is being single and having to find a girl to have sex with at a club, or whatever, and only suceeding ocassionally.

if that's what you'd like, man, more power to you.  there are a lot of us with other priorities, though.

i don't presume to speak for anyone but myself, perhaps you should consider the same.


cheers,
will

Quote from: RoadstergalAch, when three people count as 'many'...  :lol: And I am using the loosest of definitions of 'people' possible in order to make it three rather than two.  Anyhoo, as Indestructibleman said, there is a thread or two of truth - but when you try to make a sheet set, comforter, bike cover, and area rug with only a thread or two of truth, you end up with a lot of BS gluing it all together.  I've seen gender analysis with a lot more truth and a lot less BS that's a lot more worth one's time to read.

and i don't disagree with that, I simply wanted to say that i found some points that were made to be self evident and commonly experienced and/or witnessed on a daily basis.

Quote from: '04gs500fand i don't disagree with that, I simply wanted to say that i found some points that were made to be self evident and commonly experienced and/or witnessed on a daily basis.

The minority, though, and with significantly invalid conclusions reached therefrom.  Like I've said, I've seen far, far better gender analysis.  Research papers, although they lack the bias and pathos that can make you feel good sometimes, tend to be a better source overall (although every paper has its own assumptions and limitations that need to be taken into account).

Be honest at least ONCE!

Damn man, you're telling me that the FIRST thing you DON'T think of when you see a woman is whether you'd nail her?  EVERY REAL man does that.  First thing.

What other priorities?

Don't you realize that almost EVERYTHING you do is for sex?

No, I'd say EVERYTHING you do is for sex.  

You eat, breath, to stay alive long enough to have sex.  Propagation of the species is THE most important job you have.  Damn, how stupid ARE you?  I mean really, don't you know that?  Don't you know that that IS the meaning of life?  To reproduce is IT, that's all there is.

I'm dealing with complete idiots here...

I'm STILL in awe over your ignorance...

Before I rest for the trip I'll give some advice to the ladies to help them chose a man that will actually care for them and NOT treat them like crap.

The man you meet who is shy, stumbling his words, kind of nervous... take him, HE actually likes you.  HE is nervous BECAUSE he is smitten by you.

The man you meet who acts calm and cool, has the "rap", is the leader of the pack...  HE doesn't give a rats ass about you.  He wants some kitty cat and then he'll go after your friends too.  Avoid him like the plague.

But you know what, you won't.  Because you can't.  And that's cool with me because I'll take some of that ass... and then throw it away.  Because you're always after the bigger better deal.  You're AS predictable as men.  Dress nice, flash some money, talk down to you like I'd do to my sister, and you're creaming in your pants.

Guys, don't you marry a woman unless SHE pursued YOU in a big way.  Otherwise you'll be kissing her ass forever.  Just a word to the wise.

BTW, My wife proposed to ME and drove 3,000 miles to do it.

And as they say in show biz:  Always keep them wanting more.

Oh, and a man CAN be friends with a woman he does/doesn't want to screw without screwing her IF she can help him get laid.  I used to do that with my old roommate.  A girl "friend" who is really cool and knows what you want and wants to help you out is a HUGE asset.  She is the BEST source of "sex friends", girls who love sex but don't want a relationship.  Take my word for it, "sex friends" are GREAT to have!

If you want a woman, be direct in your pursuit.  You'd be surprised what you get sometimes.

Man, I wish I knew then what I know now.  I'd have been even deeper in the honeys!

Joe, stop lying to yourself and the rest of the board, we all know you've had about as much sex as the rest of your D&D Boyfriends. Maybe if you pretend your William Shatner blow up doll was a real woman, then you'd actually have had real female experience...  

Quote from: joerockerBe honest at least ONCE!

Damn man, you're telling me that the FIRST thing you DON'T think of when you see a woman is whether you'd nail her?  EVERY REAL man does that.  First thing.

i'm not saying that.  however, part of my consideration of whether i'd like to nail her involves imagining the before and after.  is this someone i could at least have a conversation with?  that's important to me, as i don't wish to completely lose my self respect.

she doesn't have to be brilliant.  we don't have to be soul-mates, but she's gotta be someone i'd like to hang out with.

Quote from: joerockerWhat other priorities?

Don't you realize that almost EVERYTHING you do is for sex?

No, I'd say EVERYTHING you do is for sex.  

You eat, breath, to stay alive long enough to have sex.  Propagation of the species is THE most important job you have.  Damn, how stupid ARE you?  I mean really, don't you know that?  Don't you know that that IS the meaning of life?  To reproduce is IT, that's all there is.

the meaning of life is whatever meaning i give it.  personally, i think the purpose of life is to be happy.  i believe that it is our most fundamental drive to avoid pain and seek pleasure.  emotional companionship is an important part of happiness for me.


cheers,
will

As a student of Leykis 101, I have this to offer:

http://webpages.csus.edu/~sac53708/LEYKIS_101_RULES_for_DATING.pdf

will made a lot of sense, i agree i cant seperate that. I am out of the dating game, im not dating, or am i sleeping with random women. If i want to i got a few that i can call up for a BC.

In the end, we men and women want the same things, its sex. regardless of how we do it, we get it from somewhere.

while sex is/has been a strong driving force in my life, ive had some very good looking female friends that i would and have turned down (with gritting teeth and the B.B.Syndrome shortly after) as i valued their friendship more, and sex with them would have ruined the friendship.

HOWEVER! i dont think the gent is completely correct, ive neither money, nor power and have had "Friends with Benefits" that to this day are still my friends even though we no longer have Intimate relations.  it would depend on the type of friendship you have/want with another person.