Ok, here goes.

Nick I understand you live in Miami, and in Miami they have a LOOTTT of sporters right? Do you ride alot with these guys, you like like gixxers

If so, how do you keep up, I have that problem, being that when I get a bunch of Gixxer around me, they end up out running me sooo bad, that they lose. (who knows they might be trying to) but anyway thats my biggest problem with group rides.

Sounds like you need to find some new riding buddies. 

well these arent really riding buddies, they are just guys that I meet.

Yeah i only ride with cbrs and one gixsar. On the highway they like to race each other but usually one of my friends stays back in the  and we mess around . but just tell them that ur bike cant past 120 they will know that ur not that fast and if their good freinds they will slow down. if not like Phaedrus said u need new riding buddies. Try to find a buddy who likes to do similar things that u like to do with ur bike. Like my friend me in him like to stunt (in closed parking lots of corse).

Just plan a ride that's 90% twisties...  Then blow them all away.