too young im 22 and am having my son in less than a month. if she is sack up and be a man

no news as of now still haven't had her period

and she's out of town so we can't take a test :-(

Quote from: frankieG on July 02, 2008, 04:41:10 PM
man nothing is out of bounds on this board

I have a feeling there will be another schism soon.  The clouds are brewing. 

I know you're probably busy with your future hanging over your head... but have you had a chance to ship out the valve kit. 

Quote from: Tang on July 02, 2008, 05:32:24 PM
no news as of now still haven't had her period

and she's out of town so we can't take a test :-(

she can stop in the local drug store ( any one. they all have em) and get a OTC test.) that is unless you want to be there when she does that is

Quote from: GeeP on July 02, 2008, 05:52:26 PM

Quote from: frankieG on July 02, 2008, 04:41:10 PM
man nothing is out of bounds on this board

I have a feeling there will be another schism soon.  The clouds are brewing. 

always, weve got a vast collection of post whores here 

Quote from: Tang on July 01, 2008, 10:29:20 PM
but i know we did't have unprotected sex this month. maybe i'm freaking out for no reason?

two words: paternity test. 

SPC you are a f%$king  tasteless classless f%$king hump, joke or no joke that was just f%$king sick. Shows how much sensitivity you have to your female counterparts, sounds like you connect better with animals than humans. 
Don't even f%$king start with me, you opened this up and you need to take the criticism and live with it after that tasteless shaZam!.

reminds me when I had this scare with a girl a while back.

god that was the worst!

First off why isnt she on birth control? There are 12 differnet kinds for women with differnet formulations and types..and she CANNOT be allergic to all of them. So first off she needs to get on BC.

Second use spermicidal condoms and not regular condoms.. a little bit more 'safety'

Third.. after this is proven -ve.. go get snipped. I am planning to do that soon. Screw kids, they arent for me. I'll spoil my cousins and nieces and nephews.

Quote from: TheGoodGuy on July 03, 2008, 04:10:36 PM
Screw kids, they arent for me. 

That's my mindset, at least for now.

Tang:  1st: i agree with TGG she should be on birth control.
2nd: Remember no matter how stressed you are getting, it is worse for her.  She is faced with the possibility of a living creature growing inside her.  If she is pregnant also realize that she ultimately has the final say in what happens, it is her body.  Ideally, you two can come to an agreement and go forward in whatever direction with no friction. 
Just breath and calm down, you're not the first person to accidentally get their GF pregnant and most certainly won't be the last. 

You know I've spent all of my life Saying that I didn't want Kids.Well recently now that I'm getting older I've Decided since All of those Around me have Already had Kids and I'm watching them Grow up that I'm really missing out and it's Bothering me Pretty bad right now.I found a Girl And I think I'm getting Her to turn Around.Even though She has a Worthless Boyfriend that lets his Mom make all of His Decisions.She Doesn't want them to Have Kids and She wants Kids.It's a F$%#@ up Situation.I'm being good to Her and Told Her how I feel.I'm not trying too Hard to Get in Her Pants and I'm  not "Playing the Game" If she Likes me for Who I am then She'll go for me.If Not Oh well. Even though She's a Couple of Years Younger than me work is taking it's toll on Her.She Actually Works Harder than me and I work three Jobs 7 Days a week.(Thats why I'm not Around too much lately) Last week She Poured 315 Yards of Concrete in three days.  It's only Her and Her Dad Working. Me I just Started the rough in on the wiring on a New House.I'm Averaging pulling 1000 feet of wire a day on top of all of the Boxes and BS.Lots of Walking involved but it's still not as rough as She does.

If she Does Wind up to be Pregnant do the right thing and Marry Her.It's time to Grow up and Go on with your Life.It's not the End it's just a New more Complex Beginning.It takes a real man to do the right thing.

woot

I"M IN THE CLEAR!!!!

My gf got pregnant.  That was 12 yrs ago this august.  We have two beautiful girls....and no house!  Private school took care of that.   It was touch and go there for a while, at one point i had the baby, and her and her 6 year old daughter, I was working at a lumber yard for $7.50 hr.   It was very motivating to get a better job/go to school.   We are going to buy a house this year.   If anyone's gf gets pregnant, don't go for an abortion, been there done that, you and her will feel like murderers, it will negatively change your life.    Have the baby, don't get married if you don't think it would work, but have the kid and take care of it.  It is part of you.   Just some words of advice from someone who has been on both sides of the equation.   I can hear my youngest daughter in the t.v. room laughing and chattering w/ her mom, life is good.   GS is running killer too, rode all day.

Quote from: Tang on July 04, 2008, 02:17:46 PM
woot

I"M IN THE CLEAR!!!!

So now you know to take some safe measures to prevent this happening again, right?

If it happens again, you've made a choice and have to live with it.  I've known people who've decided they weren't ready to have a kid and had abortions.  They regretted doing it when they finally grew up and realized their mistake.

I got kids and wasn't ready either.  You never are!  

Previous poster stated "living creature growing inside her".  Kids aren't creatures.

Kids aren't creatures they are monsters....loveable huggable little monsters

Well I guess good for you since you don't sound like you wanted to man up.

Even BC is not 100% effective. My ex was on the depo shot's and still got pregnant mid cycle. I became a dad at 29.

My ex had a choice even though I didn't want to be a dad I don't believe in abortion. If she wanted an abortion she had to pack her shaZam! and leave.

ya kids can be  little monsters, or terrorists or whatever. but i consider them to be gods gift

They are Amazing , As i learnt , make sure u tell them you love them everyday, Me and My girlfriend are going to be trying for a child soon

Yep, don't take your friends and family for granted.  I learned that a long time ago with the loss of a family member.  Ya never know when they'll be gone. Good luck trying with your girlfriend.  Kids are a blessing and some women that really want to have a kid can't have one.  Then the ones that don't wan't kids reproduce like bunnies.

Kids are a royal pain sometimes but I wouldn't give up my 2 little terroristic monsters  for anything.