Well Terry if it is any consolation my biological creators were 40 years apart my mom ( I hate calling her that she doesn't deserve it) was the young one. My father (hate that even more) would have been 90 this year. My BF is my mom's age we are 20 years apart. Guess it is an Arkansas thing. I'm a heart person not looks.

My knight in rusted armor LOL. Not his best pic but neither one of us do pics 



Mary

So SPC, you dont want to Hurt her, then don't. Don't split. Stay together and she won't be hurt, will she? You're worried about 20 years down the track and maybe hurting her. Dude, at 20 years down the track you will have been with her for nearly as long as you've been walking around. There will be no "life difference" by then - whatever that means.

As far as I am concerned, young girls are too skittish. Their head is still in white wedding knight in shining armor fantasy mode. Where the opinions of their gym buddies is most important, etc., and Partying and Going Out and Having A Family turn them into unable-to-be-reasoned-with automaton droids.

Sade knew a thing or two http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kxNJV83EMJw

Michael

That's true, just focus on the here and now and continue to give each other those little thrills for as long as it lasts.

Quote from: mister on September 08, 2011, 04:28:20 AM

As far as I am concerned, young girls are too skittish. Their head is still in white wedding knight in shining armor fantasy mode. Where the opinions of their gym buddies is most important, etc., and Partying and Going Out and Having A Family turn them into unable-to-be-reasoned-with automaton droids.

I'm reminded of a droll saying from a book character or summat, which was something like:

"Choose an older, more mature woman, over a younger one. Older women dont smell, dont yell(at you?), dont tell.. and are grateful as hell"

You left out "Don't swell" as in conceive.

We're goin shooting tomorrow then to dinner. I've got to have a pretty serious talk with her anyway. I thought I was just over reacting, but a few other people have mentioned that she hasn't seemed quite right for the last two weeks     there's something wrong and I've got to get it out of her, it kills me to know there's something wrong...

I'm very pleased with her performance at the range. The worker at the range assumed we were a couple and when we tried to correct him, the lady working with him said 'bull$h!t, its easy to see you both love eachother'
We had some very nice, serious conversations while driving the back roads in her car and I'm really glad she shared, but  now I'm even more worried. How can I add one more stress to her life by telling her when I know there's so much going on in her head.

What exactly is it you are going to tell her?

Quote from: spc on September 09, 2011, 08:40:45 PM
I'm very pleased with her performance at the range. The worker at the range assumed we were a couple and when we tried to correct him, the lady working with him said 'bull$h!t, its easy to see you both love eachother'
We had some very nice, serious conversations while driving the back roads in her car and I'm really glad she shared, but  now I'm even more worried. How can I add one more stress to her life by telling her when I know there's so much going on in her head.

Like oj said, what is it you feel you need to tell her so desperately?

Hint: A woman does NOT spend time with a guy she is not interested in.

Michael

http://www.linesthataregood.com/cheesy.html   LMFAO has an attempt/success meter there too well a chart

We were at a regular hangout, having dinner last night. She got up to hit the ladies room and the older lady sitting next to us leaned over and said 'you and your wife remind me of myself and my husband when we were younger'
I said 'she's not my wife'
she said 'why not  she'd say yes'

That's irrelevant, that doesn't mean anything, that's someone making a meaningless observation. Are you basing your relationship on the spontaneous utterances of complete strangers? 

Maybe he is writing all this mushy junk about her so he can "accidentally" leave the page open for her to see. 

You never know.

Honestly, I'm just thinking out loud.....on the internet. 
I'm still amazed at how I feel about her...a little scared as well. There are some things going on I'd rather not post about, but suffice it to say I've been worried sick about her recently...

Quote from: mister on September 10, 2011, 12:05:41 AM

Quote from: spc on September 09, 2011, 08:40:45 PM
I'm very pleased with her performance at the range. The worker at the range assumed we were a couple and when we tried to correct him, the lady working with him said 'bull$h!t, its easy to see you both love eachother'
We had some very nice, serious conversations while driving the back roads in her car and I'm really glad she shared, but  now I'm even more worried. How can I add one more stress to her life by telling her when I know there's so much going on in her head.

Like oj said, what is it you feel you need to tell her so desperately?

Hint: A woman does NOT spend time with a guy she is not interested in.

Michael

unless she is trying to wring every last dime out of him. and this applies to guys too. but yes. normally if she wasnt interested, youd just get lied to and left. but she wouldnt attach herself to you if she had no interest.  ( imho)

Quote from: yamahonkawazuki on September 16, 2011, 09:11:29 PM

Quote from: mister on September 10, 2011, 12:05:41 AM

Quote from: spc on September 09, 2011, 08:40:45 PM
I'm very pleased with her performance at the range. The worker at the range assumed we were a couple and when we tried to correct him, the lady working with him said 'bull$h!t, its easy to see you both love eachother'
We had some very nice, serious conversations while driving the back roads in her car and I'm really glad she shared, but  now I'm even more worried. How can I add one more stress to her life by telling her when I know there's so much going on in her head.

Like oj said, what is it you feel you need to tell her so desperately?

Hint: A woman does NOT spend time with a guy she is not interested in.

Michael

unless she is trying to wring every last dime out of him.

Well, in that case, Yama, she is still Interested isn't she? Just for a Different reason.

Mr Gibson, can you phone your office please...

Michael

In a roundabout way yes. been through enough of that shaZam!, plus mindgames in my life. might as well remain celibate lol

Quote from: yamahonkawazuki on September 17, 2011, 12:31:49 AM
In a roundabout way yes. been through enough of that shaZam!, plus mindgames in my life. might as well remain celibate lol

You can always still visit hookers, just stay single. 

Michael